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Full Time Travel With Teenagers

Wondering what it would be like to full time travel with teenagers? I’m Gabi. Myself and 2 of my siblings have been full time traveling as teenagers for well…pretty much our entire teen years.

A lot of people worry about how their teen would make friends and if they will be able to get into college, so in this blog, I’m sharing with you my 10 truths about full time travel as a teen.

By now, you’ve probably heard about the new lifestyle trend: full-time travel. This form of long-term travel has transformed from being practically unheard of to a community of hundreds of people abandoning their old lifestyles to experience the dream—traveling the world with loved ones and making lasting memories. Some individuals give it a try for just a year, but more often than not, once they start, they can’t easily return to their previous way of life.

People of nearly all walks of life are taking to the roads and are off exploring the globe. There are vanlifing 20-somethings, budget travel families with newborns and pre-teens, RVing 50 year olds, and backpacking 30-somethings (not stereotyping here, just naming a few). Despite this, there is a shocking lack of travelers in one particular age group, teenagers.

Where Are All The Full-Time Travel Families With Teenagers???

I mean seriously, I’m 18, and over the past 4 years of full-time traveling, I’ve met dozens of long-term travelers. I’ve met families and young people and old people and despite that, there are never families that stick with it as their kids get older or more often, people aren’t willing to begin this lifestyle if their kids are older, as if it’s too late to make that big of a change in their kids’ childhood.

The reasons people don’t travel with teenagers is seemingly logical when it’s you who’s trying to make that full-time travel decision but it all comes down to one thing…fear.

I’m here to point out why you should rationalize those fear, say f*&k it, and just go live your dream. Chances are that if you’ve found your way to this article, you already have a sense that full-time travel could be the thing you’ve always wanted out of your life: adventures, memories, and happiness.

Additionally, if you haven’t noticed, I’m writing this article from the perspective of an 18-year-old girl who started traveling the world full-time with her family at 15. This blog doesn’t consist of assumptions a parent might make about their child’s development; it stems from firsthand experience.

Disclosure: Before you dive in, note that while these are completely honest reasons why people avoid full-time travel with teens, they’re intended to be funny and comical. If questioning the status quo offends you, just stop reading now because I’m not beating around the bush.

Okay, enough with the rambling, let’s get into the 10 reasons why families don’t full-time travel when their kids are teenagers…

1 | You Want Your Kids To Be Just Like the Rest of the Teenage Population

School breeds clones. That’s a fact. Okay, maybe that’s dramatic but still kinda true.

People don’t all look the same, share identical interests, or possess the same style. Rather, they’ve all been taught to think alike. Society encourages them to never question the status quo, to follow the crowd (hint: that’s called peer pressure), to communicate using a string of internet trends, and to engage in gossip (yes, even the boys partake).

Really, why would you want to go and change that? If you let them follow that script you are guaranteed to get a child that fits in with all societal norms, is accepted by a friends group as they get older, and will never stand out. 

On the other hand if you travel with your son or daughter and actually expose them to different cultures and different types of people with all sorts of different lifestyles, you could end up with a child who is self aware, unique, happy (not joyful, happy), independent, and stands out like a sore thumb because they’ve discovered exactly who they are deep down …yeesh *she says with a shiver* who’d want that?

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2 | The School System Provides the Absolute Best Form of Education

Forget the fact that there’s a whole world out there full of people who actually know a little bit about life. I mean those $30/hour teachers pfftshhh, they know their shit. They got something other people don’t have: textbooks and a degree in teaching.

Textbooks really contain all you need to know to be educated in life. There’s really no point in learning life skills like adaptability, challenge, risk, and mature communication.

Get off your high horse and think about how much you yourself probably don’t even know about the world. Think about every single country and culture that exists and think about how each of these cultures has a slightly different perspective on life and the world. Think about how many things probably exist in the world that you don’t even know exist.

Life has an endless amount of lessons to teach us and by letting the world be your teacher, your son/daughter will acquired a unique array of lessons and skillset. Regardless of whether your teenagers choose to attend college, the experiences they gain from travel will likely prove more valuable than their textbook education by the time they’re ready to enter the workforce.

3 | The World is a Worthless Teacher

The quotes are wrong:

  • “And then I realized, adventure is the best way to learn” – Unknown
  • “There are lessons that you can’t get out of a book that are waiting for you at the other end of that flight” – Henry Rollins
  • “Travel, it leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller” – Ibn Battuta

Those were written by wise psychopaths who had it all wrong. What’s out there that you couldn’t learn from the safety of your home and school? What benefit could possibly come from facing discomfort, taking risks, being brave, and taking falls?

Doing crazy things, seeing mind-blowing sights, facing mishaps, and failing teaches something that schools don’t include as a subject: self-growth.

Self-growth is my favorite subject because you never run out of curriculum. It keeps you on your toes and never stops delivering “Ah-ha!” moments.

If we live within a certain box of ideas and perspectives, our minds are constrained to only think in those terms and viewpoints. Seeing life from the other side of the world can expand your ideals and open up your mind to entirely new possibilities creatively, intellectually, and philosophically.

4 | Culture is Simply Meaningless

It surely doesn’t matter the traditions of the times before us.  This is how the world functions now. All that matters is that you have a brief understanding of history, mostly so that you know the way it is now is far better.

Well here’s the thing, culture is history that you can see, taste, and smell. Culture can open your eyes to a whole new way of seeing the world around you.

Culture, not just history, is the roots of a tree, and from the past we’ve built this foundation of humankind and now the branches of time are growing in all directions in different countries creating new cultures and discoveries. Kids are the future they say and I believe in that. The broader our understanding of culture, the more innovative we can be with the future.

Culture is understanding the past to analyze your own future. Schools tell you that’s what history is for, “Learning from other’s mistakes” but I disagree because, except for the occasional history lover, most people don’t reflect on history and apply it to their own life, let alone remember anything the learned in history. Yeah maybe the dates that wars started and ended, but you don’t remember history like you do culture.

When you experience a culture, you remember how things looked, the smells that filled your senses, and most of all, the shocking moment where all of a sudden, everything clicks and a whole new chamber of your mind opens up to see a new way, a new perspective of the world.

Culture is time travel and all of a sudden, after experiencing a location yourself, you can see how the modern way’s traditions are incorporated and how history evolved the culture to where it is now…

(Was that too deep for a humor post?)

…yeah definitely not valuable at all, after all, that doesn’t help your kids score a 4.0 GPA on their high school history exams.

5 | Teenage Peers Teach Way Better Manners

…wow, I can’t believe you’re still reading. 

This might not measure up to my usual writing, but if you’ve reached this point in this trivial blog post about parenting, I’ll consider it a compliment that traveling during my teenage years didn’t mess me up too badly.

The next reason people don’t decide to worldschool their kids is this common belief: I want my kids to be around kids their own age.

Well it’s fair. Teenagers do teach great drive, manners, work ethic, and expectations out of our actions. Take a look around. Can’t you see all the high school kids trying to pursue greater happiness, working hard to achieve their dream futures, living their passions, and forgetting about what other people are pressuring them to do.

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This is not to say that ALL teenagers have bad manners, poor work ethic, and lack of future drive. And it’s totally fine to want your kids, or your kids to want, to be around people their own age. It’s fun to be around other teenagers that you get to just be young and dumb with.

The problem is that too often, people use the phrase “I only want my kids to hang out with other people their age.” I don’t really see how hanging out with adults has a negative affect on a teenager’s personality. By all means, peers are not always a bad influence, but they’re rarely a good influence.

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The same goes for adults but the difference is, adults can teach kids a lot about manners, especially when you’re meeting adults from all different parts of the globe.

You pick up on universal manners like making eye contact when talking, being kind to everyone you meet, and not having your head in your phone all the time. T

here’s a good chance that being with a traveling family will also bring teenagers plenty of encouragement from others adults and affirmation in itself could influence your kids to aspire to something greater rather than just going along with the crowd.

6 | They want to be sure their kids preserve 9-5 office jobs

Golly gee, I adore waking up at 5 am every morning, scrambling to make breakfast, preparing the kid’s lunches, dressing myself in presentable attire to evade any judgment from my colleagues, dropping the kids at school, and enduring an hour of traffic before arriving at a job that, quite honestly, bores me to death.

I basically hate my boss and my work is just robotic movement, no real passion in the efforts. Then I get to sit in more traffic on the way home, stop by the store and attempt to get groceries to achieve that “healthy lifestyle” everyone talks about, whereupon I realize that there’s no way I can summon the energy to actually cook something healthy when I get home, so instead, I grab a premade Cesear salad (that’s healthy right?), boil pasta for the kids, and call it a day…are those cookies?

Then, I have to deal with more human beings whom I dearly love but lack the energy to interact with. I cook, eat, clean, bathe the kids, bathe myself, collapse in bed, and scroll the endless abyss of social media to help me feel “inspired”…said no one ever.

The rat race is great. I mean that 9 to 5 job provides a lot of monetary security and who doesn’t want that for their kids. That is, unless you want your kids to actually love their life and wake up excited every day

Full time travel with teenagers
Yeah sure, you might not sure the 9-5 office job if you travel with your kids, but in the end, isn’t it all about the memories you’ve made together

Communication: Discuss your intentions with loved ones. Open, honest conversations can alleviate concerns and help them understand your perspective.

Look, full time travel might not make it so that your kids get into the best college, so they can graduate and get a degree, and get a well paying office job, but maybe that’s not such a bad thing.

I’m not suggesting that you shouldn’t educate your kids; after all, I’m in the process of writing an entire blog on worldschooling teenagers (blog coming soon). But, it’s just that, it’s not the only way and one of the greatest benefits of full time travel is that your kids get the opportunity to see what’s out there: occupation wise and location wise.

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7 | But What Will the Neighbors (And Everyone Else in Your Life) Think?

Other people’s opinions of you are a direct representation of who you actually are. If they say you’re irresponsible for just ditching conformity, then you should totally believe them. After all, those people know everything there is to know about me- like my dreams, fears, and problems- and they’re better judges of what you should do with your life.

“But what will they think?” Everyone’s biggest hang-up. Our whole society revolves around this question and it has caused a myriad of issues on both a personal level and in the population as a whole. Depressed? Worried about what people think? This could be why most people don’t achieve their dreams…

Are you truly willing to let the fear of what people might think be the sole factor preventing you from embarking on the adventure of a lifetime?

Sometimes it’s loving: “Will they think I don’t love them enough to be around them?”

Sometimes it’s fearful: “Will they think I’m a quitter? That being irresponsible? Will they think I’m weird? Or crazy? Or worse?”

Mindfulness Practices: Engage in mindfulness or meditation to manage anxiety and stay centered amidst external opinions.

Yes people may, actually probably will, judge you. There will be a whole lot of love, fear, and jealousy amidst the budgets, and most of the time they’re feeling all three at once. There will be haters but there will also be people who are inspired by your decision to just go. But most importantly, none of it matters. Not a single one of their thoughts or opinions about you should change your decision to travel with teenagers or not.

Remember, even when traveling as a family, travel is a personal journey for each one of you, both the parents and kids, and if you feel the road calling out to you, trust your gut, block out the chatter, and know that you’re doing what’s best for both you and your teenagers.

8 | Your Kids Are Sassy and Parents Trust Their Angsty Opinions

It’s tough when your teenager reacts that way, isn’t it? Their resistance can feel like a barrier to your plans. But, remember, adolescence is a time of immense change and strong emotions. Yet, butting heads over travel desires doesn’t have to be the end of the discussion. It might require patience, understanding, and some compromises.

If it’s not portrayed enough movies, tv shows, and the actual upbringing of teenagers in modern society, teenagers do not know what’s best for them.

If you have the inkling that full-time travel could be your calling, go with it. Your kids will absolutely learn valuable lessons like how not to be sassy and rude when they’re trying to order baguettes in a French bakery and don’t speak an ounce of French.

Kindness and good manners are the only way you’ll make it out of there in the real world with the bread you came in for.

9 | You Don’t Want to Separate Them From Their Friends

“But what about friends?” People ask this question as if they’re telling a secret. As if they can’t possibly imagine a response in which the response will be positive and non-depressing. Anyone I’ve ever met whose curious about travel has asked me this question. Why is this question so important to people?!

Well, actually I know why. Certainly! In the eyes of many, high school friendships often hold immense significance during adolescence. During these formative years, self-love might not be fully realized, leading individuals to seek validation from others. The belief that more friends equate to greater personal worth tends to prevail in teenage circles. Nonetheless, the importance of friendships in high school can vary significantly from person to person. Wrong, and in all fairness, I had myself convinced for the first few years of travel.

Here’s the deal. Friends are fun and great and yes, when you travel you can’t be around those great people in your life, but I’ve got news, most of them aren’t really true friends. As sad as it is, the second you start traveling, people tend to cut their relationships off with you even though there are plenty of ways you COULD keep in touch—texting, Skype, social media, Marco Polo, etc.

Whether it’s jealousy or simply the fact that people don’t really care to keep in touch unless you’re involved in their OWN life, travel tests true friendships, and I honestly think that’s a good thing.

Positive Feedback Matters: Value constructive feedback from trustworthy sources, not just internet trolls.

It’s not just me either. Other traveling teenagers I know have said the same thing. “You start traveling and all your friends become assholes”…That is true all except for a special few. Those are the real friends you stay in touch with your whole life and that’s a pretty cool thing.

So sure you can look at it as a tragic social life for your kids or you can choose to see it as a skip ahead in the learning curve of friendship. Screw the assholes, appreciate the ones who stick around.  

10 | Talking to Strangers Doesn’t Improve Social Skills

I bet those kids are awkward. An unspoken assumption about traveling kids that I have no idea where it could’ve logically come from.

So you’re telling me that because I don’t spend 8 hours of my day chattering with other teenagers in a meaningless drawl of “and so he was like” and “she was like” and rather spend most of my days meeting new people both young and old, some who speak English and some who don’t speak English, from different countries and cultures, I have bad social skills… right, okay sure whatever you say.

I know fitting in is what matters (we covered that, didn’t we?), and I understand that you want your kids to develop mature, adult communication skills concurrently with their peers because otherwise, more mature social skills may be perceived as socially awkward.

What is it with the term socially awkward anyway? Did you accidentally stutter one time? Are we calling introverts awkward now? If you’re not talkative, does that mean you’re awkward? Does a teenager who holds a conversation with an adult as if they themself were an adult make them awkward?

Active Listening: Engage genuinely in conversations. Listening attentively and responding thoughtfully can make interactions smoother.

For one thing, not to toot my own horn (which in itself makes it sound as if I’m tooting my own horn) but dozens of people who we’ve met throughout our travels have directly complimented both my brother, sister’s, and my own social skills. The only people who have ever actually deemed us as awkward have been internet trolls (I still don’t understand why they’re so mean).

People considering full time travel have directly emailed or asked my mom questions and for some advice in which, some people have directly stated that, “They’re worried their kids might become socially awkward” well yeah they could, but so could keeping them in school.

The fact is, people become socially awkward when not forced to practice communication. Traveling full time could lead a teenager to become socially awkward if the parents enable them to do so, just as a teenager in regular school might become socially awkward if they live inside a bubble and avoid communication at all costs.

Full-time travel does not create socially awkward teenagers, in fact, it does the opposite. Travel gives so many great opportunities to practice communication with complete strangers, mature adults, and inspiring locals.


I hope I’ve squashed (or at least discouraged) all your irrational doubts about traveling full-time with kids.

Isthmus Peak, 5 Reasons to Visit Wanaka
Gabi overlooking the lakes of Wanaka from Isthmus Peak

Traveling full-time not only provided me with a unique education for the world but also offered the time and inspiration to forge a distinctive career for myself: blogging.

I started blogging at age 16 and by the time I graduated high school, me, and business partner, AKA my mom, had worked together to build a full-time business that provided us not only income but also the opportunity to travel for free with various sponsorship opportunities.

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If you are seriously considering full-time travel, be sure to also check out my blog on a complete guide to teaching entrepreneurship to teenagers (because full-time travel is not just about travel).

P.S. Despite my lovely little disclosure at the beginning about this being meant to be comical, I know this blog will attract a lot of haters. Anyway, haters typically don’t like to listen to those kinds of things, so feel free to let it all out in the comments below 💙. You’re entitled to your opinion, and I’m entitled to mine 🙂

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Christina

Wednesday 5th of July 2023

My husband and I have been discussing making the leap to full time RV living for his work. I'm excited about the adventure but a bit nervous because we do have a 15 year old! This blog was exactly what I needed to see to ease some of those concerns! Thanks for sharing : )

Nataia Gutierrez

Friday 24th of March 2023

I have been wanting to travel for years now but was always to scared of what would happen to my little girl. Would she be socially awkward? Would she learn all she needs to learn? Well, reading this has made almost all thise fears go away! It's great to get the perspective of a teenager. I can't thank you enough for writing this. I feel like everything is going to be ok now ❤️ So, of we go...

Robyn

Tuesday 25th of April 2023

Congrats! I hope your journey is amazing!!

Jaye

Wednesday 28th of April 2021

I realize that this is an older post, but having just read it I am compelled to respond.

Something that I've noted not only in the post itself (which is filled with impressively important insights in my opinion), is that the author and everyone who commented are traveling with siblings. Those of us who want to travel with ONE teen are in a very different situation, essentially because as all of you have pointed out, there are few teens on the road.

I travel with my son frequently, but due to the "but all my friends are here" syndrome Gabi noted in her post, it's hard to stay away for longer stretches than a few weeks. He loves his time on the road, and he relishes meeting new people of all ages. But watching his pals on social media depicting all the fun they're having without him causes him to miss his friends. While I understand this 100%, the only way I know how to deal with it is to bring him home for months at a time.

If anyone has insights to offer to me that I might consider in terms of spending more time on the road with him, I am wide open to all thoughts, especially from teens themselves. Just remember - it's easy to say "don't be afraid to take them away from their friends" when you or your kids are traveling with siblings. That's a horse of a different color!

Thanks to anyone who responds!

Gabi

Thursday 29th of April 2021

I totally understand. It definitely would be a different story if I wasn’t so close with my siblings. But with that, I still would stand by my points made in my blog.

Overall, it’s still the same feeling I had despite having siblings. I haven’t looked at this blog in a while so I don’t know if I said this but, it’s hard. It’s HARD to live life with that much FOMO. There’s not a replacement, only an alternative. Alternatives for us looked like learning to find outdoor activities we loved like rock climbing. We learned to love climbing and hiking more than we missed friends.

My complex answer from personal experience is that, friends are important, yes. But personally, I know friends as a teenager were primarily a source of finding self worth—it’s just human nature. When I practiced more and more mindfulness, I realized that. And I started asking myself, what am I hoping the people are going to validate me for? How can I feel accepted from within so I don’t need to seek it in the external world?

So here’s what I’d say the most important question is to ask yourself and your son: what’s the end goal? If you feel like, he’s probably going to go to college and just fit back into the usual life path, then I would probably encourage time spent back home with friends. But I really think travel provides a bit more opportunity. If for example, your son wants be nomadic on his own when he gets older or maybe start a business…then I’d encourage the difficult process now.

In some ways, I think of it like a “sacrifice” (even though that sounds harsh) and if the end goal is worthwhile, stay true to the journey. If there’s no payoff, I would probably never be able to do this, period. So my even deeper message would be work with him to create a dream goal worth fighting for.

And a couple last small things, it might be worth him choosing to take breaks form social media. I’ve had to do that many times in the last 6 years to limit FOMO. Or, option 2, use social media to find more people to meet up with on the road.

I hope that gave you some insights but go with what feels right in your heart! Happy travels!

Christian

Tuesday 7th of January 2020

Great to read this blog. We are setting out with our 12 and 14 year old sons this year and we are pumped. SOOOOO many reasons not to not do it. I love your angle on this. Keep em coming.

Mike

Tuesday 19th of November 2019

You are spot on with these points. Every adult I know has been described in point 6. lol You and your siblings might be young but you all have lived, seen, and experience more than anyone I know. I look forward to reading more.

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